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Post by Zaf on May 1, 2013 18:54:45 GMT 1
Glad the scan is over
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Post by Deleted on May 1, 2013 20:49:05 GMT 1
so-so, pragmatic, scared, alone, worried
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Post by Zaf on May 1, 2013 20:54:45 GMT 1
((((hugs))))
Z xx
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Post by cat on May 1, 2013 21:34:16 GMT 1
Hi Alex.... this is a very lonely time for you and it's natural for you to be scared. It's the fear of the unknown, eh? But, I think you're doing a lot better than I expected. It's all uphill at the moment, but it will soon level out,,,,trust me, I've been there...exactly where you are, as you know.
I hope tonight is safe for you
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Post by shazzy on May 1, 2013 21:39:45 GMT 1
(((((( hugs )))))) for you Alex. We are here for you. I know its hard for you right now but it will get better. You are being so pro active and its great to hear. Take care and thinking of you.
(((((( hugs )))))) for you Zaf, I can understand your relief.
I am feeling relieved also, good news about hubbies scan.
S x x x x
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Post by cat on May 1, 2013 21:49:16 GMT 1
Zaf, when are your results due?
Shaz, I bet you both are relieved. Such a nightmare you have that twice EVERY year on your calendar.
Thinking of you both
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Post by Zaf on May 1, 2013 21:55:14 GMT 1
Not for a fortnight cat but I think (and hope) if anything sinister shows up I will hear more quickly.
Thats such a relief for you shazzy, you deserve something good to happen
Thinking of you Alex
Z xxx
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Post by cat on May 1, 2013 21:59:24 GMT 1
I'm feeling shell-shocked, tired, worried, a little guilty for mouthing off to P, and missing some of my so-called friends, although I don't know why I bother....the feeling doesn't look mutual....that is the hardest thing to take; the apparent indifference to my absence. Didn't expect people to fall over themselves to email me, but just a bit hurt that only 2-3 did, out of 12-15 I used to chat with every day....makes me wonder about myself, really. As a friend keeps reminding me, "The way people treat you is a statement about who they are as a human being. It is not a statement about you"
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Post by Zaf on May 1, 2013 22:03:40 GMT 1
When something bad happens thats when you find out who your real friends are Cat
Z xx
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Post by shazzy on May 1, 2013 22:09:14 GMT 1
So true. We only need a few close true friends.
S x x x x
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Post by cat on May 1, 2013 22:42:15 GMT 1
Well, sorry for jumping the gun, but tonight I've had a few very nice emails - 6 in total tonight. They have been very appreciated and made me feel better. Sometimes we just need to know that people think about us, eh?
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Post by Zaf on May 2, 2013 8:42:15 GMT 1
Thats good to know Cat Z xx
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Post by Deleted on May 2, 2013 10:31:47 GMT 1
I asked some people there to email you Cat, the ones who were bemoaning the fact you had left. I said email him then, so perhaps they did
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Post by Deleted on May 2, 2013 10:32:43 GMT 1
I am alright, feel better. rough sleepers team found me at 7am. I was like whats going on, could barely talk. They were kind though. I feel alrigh right now, just need to find a job. Just using a pc at first base
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Post by Deleted on May 2, 2013 10:37:32 GMT 1
Cat dont wonder about yourself, your a good guy. Your bound to be hurt right now. Unfortunately I think this is not only the nature of most humans I come across(the bit about taking but never giving) but also more so the nature of forums and the internet in general.
If it makes you feel any better, my mate who so kindly put me up for 3 weeks in Sheffield has hardly emailed me to find out how I am going on, yet was saying how he was going to miss me being around before I left. In fact you lot have shown ten times the consideration and care that my friend in the 'real' world has shown. he suffers depression himself but thats no excuse.
I cant say why people do this Cat, maybe depression is a selfish illness, maybe people are too wrapped up in themselves, or maybe its human nature. Its nothing you did or are and yes you put alot of effort into that forum. I recognise your good work for what it was and value and appreciate your time
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