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Post by shazzy on Mar 7, 2014 23:11:49 GMT 1
It just seems so final making a will, but he seems to be wanting to do the right thing. Being in the hospice should be better for your friend.
How ridiculous of your dentist! You know when you are in pain . Is there another dentist you could use to get a second opinion?
S x x
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Post by Zaf on Mar 9, 2014 18:54:14 GMT 1
Its been so sudden, he was fine in January and now has only a few weeks to live, very shocking. His friends and workmates are all rallying round to help, David visited ladt night and said the hospice seemed well staffed and the nurse he saw very nice. I hope the end is quick for him as he is deteriorating very quickly and has almost movement on tne right side of his body I wasnt impressed with the dentist but I'll see if it improves with her advice, if not I'll ask if I can see their other dentist Z xx
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Post by shazzy on Mar 10, 2014 0:01:51 GMT 1
That's so awful the poor man. Its good to hear everyone are rallying found him, he needs support.
I do so hope your tooth improves, if not ask to get a second opinion.
S x x
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Post by Zaf on Mar 11, 2014 18:39:36 GMT 1
Everyone gives bikers a bad press but they are all doing so much to help him and his family, its very touching xxx
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Post by Zaf on Mar 12, 2014 14:24:24 GMT 1
Ghastly day, two very nerdy employees and a customer from hell - had a panic attack and still feeling awful even though Im at home
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Post by shazzy on Mar 13, 2014 20:51:02 GMT 1
I have always found bikers to be lovely and friendly, they always look after one an other.
((((( hugs ))))) I am so sorry you have had such an awful time. People can be really horrible sometimes .
I hope you have a restful quiet weekend,
S x x
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Post by Zaf on Mar 14, 2014 8:59:12 GMT 1
Im hoping it will be dry and warm, theres so much to do outside and good weather usually lifts my spirits xxx
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Post by shazzy on Mar 14, 2014 21:33:01 GMT 1
The weather forecast looks pretty good for the weekend. So fingers crossed .
S x x
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Post by Zaf on Mar 15, 2014 21:35:43 GMT 1
Its been mildish today but cloudy, managed to tweak my back planting a little apple tree, tomorrow is supposed to be sunny so hope to get the horses out xxx
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Post by shazzy on Mar 16, 2014 22:35:01 GMT 1
Oh no poor you . Its so easy done.
Hope you managed to get out with the horses today. It was lovely here, so hope it was nice for you.
S x x x
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Post by Zaf on Mar 17, 2014 20:18:52 GMT 1
I did thank you, the weather is lovely, it makes such a lot of difference xxx
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Post by Zaf on Mar 22, 2014 19:07:14 GMT 1
Ive had a strange few days, I suppose restless would be one way of describing it, very up and down too, sometimes bursting with energy and other times not wanting to do anything.
Our friend who is dying is getting progressively worse, he is on my mind a lot, I hope for his sake he passes away very soon, its so sad to see someone that was fighting fit at Christmas reduced to being partially paralysed and barely able to talk in such a short time.
Mum is getting quite frail now, she needs help bathing and getting meals as well as reminding several times to take her medication, I think she may be showing the first signs of mild dementia too, I know she would hate to go into a home so I'm doing what I can to prevent that, I'm lucky to live so near to be able to help, it would be very difficult if I didnt so must be grateful for that.
My auntie in Redcar (great aunt really) is not too good so I hope to visit her over Easter but Im worried about leaving my mum even though David will be around to check on her, life seems to be full of difficult decisions just now....
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Post by shazzy on Mar 23, 2014 23:38:04 GMT 1
Really feel for you Zaf. Its a lot of responsibility on you. I am having to do a lot for mum too. Its the worry as well that's a strain.
Your poor friend, it must be so hard for him. Like you I hope the end comes peacefully for him.
Hugs S x x
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Post by Zaf on Mar 25, 2014 9:54:55 GMT 1
I do feel a bit weighed down atm but as you know we just have to battle on with life even when it seems to be throwing a lot at us.
At least the clocks go forward next weekend so we can take advantage of longer evenings if the weather starts to warm back up a bit!
Z xxx
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Post by cat on Mar 25, 2014 12:07:01 GMT 1
Sorry things are difficult at the moment, Zaf
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